Ilmu pasti

Apa yang kita rasakan dalam hati tak bisa dipungkiri walau tak seorang pun dapat mengerti, tapi tanyakan lagi pada diri sendiri, apa benar ini yang dicari?

Terkadang yang terbaik untuk kita belum tentu kita sukai, dan yang kita sukai belum tentu yang terbaik untuk kita. Tapi percayalah, Allah Mahatahu. Dia tahu yang terbaik untuk kita. Peribahasa rumput tetangga selalu terlihat lebih indah dari rumput kita memang sebaiknya kita ganti persepsi. Mari kita lihat tiap persoalan dari sudut pandang yang berbeda. Jujur, saya suka iklan L.A Light. Rumput kita memang lebih asik dari rumput tetangga.

Apa yang orang lain punya belum tentu bagus buat kita. Malah seharusnya kita bersyukur dengan apa yang kita miliki sekarang, suka ataupun tidak. Apa yang kita miliki seharusnya dirawat dan dijaga karena itu merupakan suatu amanat. Sadarlah bahwa kita tidak memiliki apa-apa. Jangan lantas berkata kalau kita tidak bahagia dengan segala yang kita miliki sekarang. Kalau memang demikian, buat sesuatu itu jadi kebahagiaan buat kita dengan cara yang kita inginkan agar hasilnya sesuai harapan.

Jangan pernah lupa ilmu pasti yang hasilnya tak ada toleransi, selalu mutlak tak bisa diganggu gugat. Persis dengan takdir dan jalan hidup kita. Setiap aksi selalu menimbulkan reaksi. Hasilnya bergantung pada keputusan kita sendiri. Dan ingat pula, Allah selalu mengawasi.

25.09.2011

Kesadaran

Kesadaran jadi satu-satunya hal yang tak saya harapkan hilang dari diri saya. Ketika orang lain berkata takut kehilangan keimanan, takut kehilangan orang-orang yang dicintai, bahkan takut kehilangan keperawanan, saya hanya takut kehilangan kesadaran.

Sadar bahwa saya hidup untuk masa depan, membuka mata saya untuk terus bertahan dan berjuang menjadi lebih baik. Sadar bahwa kita bisa kehilangan semuanya menjadi pelajaran buat saya untuk tidak mengumbar hawa napsu. Sadar bahwa manusia itu makhluk yang terbatas membuat imajinasi saya bebas berkelana walau saya juga sadar ada aturan -baik tertulis maupun tidak- yang harus saya patuhi.

Saya juga sadar, kehilangan keimanan berarti tidak punya pegangan. Sebagai muslim saya sangat percaya pada keyakinan yang saya anut dan saya ajarkan selama ini pada teman-teman kecil saya. Kehilangan orang-orang yang saya cintai mungkin sudah nasib kalau tidak dibilang takdir. Semua saya serahkan pada Allah walau pada awalnya terasa sangat berat. Mungkin saja itu yang terbaik yang harus saya hadapi. Kehilangan kesadaran akan menjadi kehancuran buat saya.

Ketika saya harus kehilangan kesadaran, saya tak akan bisa menikmati cinta dan perhatian orang lain. Bahkan saya tak akan menyadari rahmat dan nikmat yang Allah beri. Ketika saya harus kehilangan kesadaran, maka saya bisa kehilangan semuanya.

Ketika saya menulis ini, saya memang telah kehilangan banyak hal. Rasanya sakit, menyesakkan, dan membuat saya sangat tertekan. Semangat untuk melanjutkan hidup sama sekali tak ada. Tapi kesadaran saya meyakinkan bahwa ada Allah yang mengatur semuanya. Ternyata tanpa kesadaran iman saya tak ada artinya. Tanpa iman kesadaran saya akan terombang-ambing.

Saat ini saya takut kehilangan kesadaran bahwa hidup hanya satu kali dan saya akan kembali pada Illahi suatu saat nanti.

17.09.2011

Menghalau galau

Sekarang ini kata galau sudah sangat sering saya dengar. Sepertinya galau kini menjadi sebuah trend. Kalau nggak galau, nggak gaol. Menurut arti kata galau sebuah kata sifat yaitu kacau tidak keruan (pikiran).

Walau galau merupakan sumber inspirasi, tapi sebenarnya itu tak perlu terjadi. Bahkan ketika galau seorang begitu sangat produktif. Pada saat galau seseorang banyak menghasilkan karya-karya tak terduga. Memang inspirasi datang dari mana saja. Untuk berkreasi bisa dalam keadaan apapun, tak peduli orang tersebut moody atau tidak. Tidak melulu pada saat orang tersebut tengah galau.

Memang lebih baik kegalauan itu disalurkan pada hal yang positif. Daripada melakukan hal yang dapat mencelakakan diri sendiri atau orang lain, lebih baik orang bergerak menghalau galau dengan berproses kreatif. Mau itu bentuknya seni lukis, seni musik, sastra, bahkan olahraga, apapun itu yang penting bermanfaat untuk diri sendiri dan orang banyak (kalau bisa).

Galau terjadi karena seseorang merasa kesepian, merasa dikucilkan, merasa diremehkan, merasa tidak ada artinya, merasa beban yang dia pikul begitu berat, merasa tak ada yang mau mendukung. Padahal kenyataannya galau termasuk penyakit hati. Bukan hal klise kalau penyakit hati hanya akan sembuh jika ada motivasi dari dalam diri dan mendekatkan diri pada Ilahi. Atau cara lebih mudah lagi dengan menghibur diri.

Mark Twain bilang: cara terbaik untuk menghibur diri sendiri adalah dengan mencoba menghibur orang lain.
Mengapa tidak kita coba menghibur orang yang sedang galau, karena dengan demikian kita tahu kalau yang kita alami tidak lebih buruk dari orang lain. Bahkan mungkin kita lebih beruntung dari orang lain. Atau anggap kita adalah orang yang paling beruntung di dunia untuk menghalau galau.

15 September 2011

Tentang Mengeluh

Membicarakan masalah kekurangan dan kelebihan adalah membahas materi PKn kelas 3 SD tentang Harga Diri.
Harga diri adalah penilaian individu terhadap kehormatan diri, melalui sikap terhadap dirinya sendiri, sejauh mana individu tersebut menilai dirinya sebagai orang yang memiliki kemampuan, keberartian, berharga, dan kompeten.

Orang yang mempunyai harga diri dapat dilihat dari caranya bertutur dan berlaku. Selalu jujur, bertanggung jawab, disiplin, tidak iri melihat keberhasilan orang lain. Justru ia akan ikut senang dan mengakui kelebihan orang lain, tidak lantas menyalahkan kekurangan diri sendiri atau orang lain. Tidak mengeluh akan kesulitan yang dihadapi.

Menyangkut masalah keluh mengeluh...tentu selalu saja ada. Manusia normal selalu mengalahkan 2 hal dalam hidupnya baik dan buruk. Positif dan negatif. Manusia hidup di antara setan dan Tuhan. Dan mengeluh, adalah hasil karya setan untuk melemahkan iman manusia.

Mengeluh merupakan salah satu penyakit hati yang seharusnya tidak kita umbar. Semua kegiatan yang kita lakukan harus ada bayarannya. Semua yang kita lakukan membutuhkan tenaga dan pikiran yang membuat badan menjadi lelah. Tak ada kerja yang tak cape, bahkan tidurpun akan terasa cape. Jadi tak perlulah kita mengeluh. Setiap perjuangan membutuhkan pengorbanan.

Justru seharusnya kita bersyukur masih mampu melakukan kegiatan yang memang harus kita kerjakan. Kalau merasa tidak kuat sebaiknya beristirahat cukup, makan cukup dan memohon Allah tetap memberi kekuatan dan kesehatan.

Lalu meyangkut persoalan yang kita pilih, tentu ada kekurangan dan kelebihannya pula. Termasuk soal pasangan. Sesuatu yang baik untuk kita belum tentu baik di mata Allah, dan yang baik dari Allah untuk kita belum tentu kita sukai. Kekurangan yang ada pada pasangan lebih baik nggak usah dibicarakan pada orang lain. Bicarakan saja dengan pasangan, karena mungkin saja dia akan memperbaiki diri dan lebih menghormati kita daripada mengeluh atas apa yang ada pada dirinya.

Bersabar dan bersyukur merupakan kunci menjauhkan diri agar kita tidak mudah mengeluh. Bersabar dan bersyukur salah satu ciri orang yang mempunyai harga diri.

Mari jadikan diri kita berharga tidak hanya di hadapan pasangan atau manusia lain, tetapi juga di hadapan Allah.

About changes

Life is not static, even though you're sitting so cool as the day yesterday, and yesterday, and yesterday again, there will always be changing. Every second that you're going through is the change.

The more time will grow more and more deficiencies that you can. The number of teeth, the process of metabolism, even memory. That increase might be something you fear or worry. As the number of wrinkles that begin to exist adorn the face, which sharpens the age of your age but reduced the contract of life on earth. Yes, the age increases the closer to death.

Aahh ... but do not think death is something that is scary. Let him pick you up later. Now is your time to have fun. Death is the greatest changes are you gonna live because after that you'll never change. While still could change, just enjoy each change.

Like when I love, love that will always change. Sometimes it's so big, other times I feel love for you was bland. It may even someday be lost as it was before we met. I don't know you and you don't know me.

Enjoy the change was because it was just like a leaf. Attending the first time as a side dish, something it is very delicious used as vegetables. Then turn into shoots that are still fresh, the generation that will continue the productivity of a leaf. Next the leaves, it did the most important thing is not just to plant where he lives, but also for the environment, the process of photosynthesis.
Inhaling carbon dioxide-toxic to humans, a complement to process food for leaf-and then produce oxygen-products of metabolism photosynthesis process, fresh air to humans.
Leaves make a positive respiration for him and for the surrounding environment.

At other times it leaves trying to defend themselves from attack crop pests, caterpillars, and all types of disorders. Surviving to its existence, and survival of trees where it lived. The leave worked hard for it because it was unable to do much when it happened.

Then the wind makes the leave enjoys its existence. Sometimes waving, nodding her head, twisting, and silent. Until it leaves the old, yellowed and dry. It's not productive anymore. Then the wind caress again. Inviting leaf stalks left. It could be the wind carry away the leaves from the tree. It could also just make it round and round before falling to the ground. The leaves were experiencing many changes.

Now I don't need to say anything to you about the changes that I went through, that you're through, we've been through. Maybe someday I feel about you grow, decrease, or disappear.

Our lives are changing every second of it even though I feel about you now still have not changed.

About Bored

"Lazy. Bored, it merely!" or, "No way, bored! There is nothing new!" or, "Yeeeakk, you make me bored!"

Boredom can be a key word to get something new. Could also be a causal processes that bring and produce creative things are more varied.

Tired of leaving it can be a monotonous old, already too familiar to be done. One thing that needs refreshment and renewal. But it also can be bored is not like a thing, person, or process.

To be 'bored' does not come too soon required a re-install, refresh, recharge, refill our souls with something fun. The trick? Expand friends, multiply the smile, If you are a moeslem take wudlu, and then multiply thanksgivin: Shalat.

Remember, God is never tired of taking care of the creatures.

About you

You are like stars that twinkle in the sky. No need to always see you to know you were there. Although the sky covered with clouds, can your being I feel. Among the millions of stars that seem small and flirtatious twinkle, I can find you.

Silent presence tired of being something fun. Destroy your smile troubled my heart. The smell of your body can always be felt. You hugs are always warm my cold. You, inspired me in everything.

You're like a small candle flame flicker in the wind-liul. Makes me not to try to keep the flame goes out. Your presence lit every step.

No need to be someone who is perfect because you fill out flaws. No need together to be united because the differences make us together. No need for tears accompanied the story that we passed with happiness that always wanted me to present. No need someone else who can I talk to because I just need you to have.

You are my little star. And I will not let you alone, have I ever looked at your beautiful lights.

Just want to love you, no matter what.

About missing

Missing was something that originally there be nothing without realizing it and accidentally. If his name was not accidentally lost, but given or thrown away or sold.

We just realized 'something' precious to us after losing 'something'. While trying desperately to keep it there is just 'something' was missing from us. Despite the maximum care of, uh ... still loose and could not have anymore.
Well ... maybe not our fortune.

There are times when we never keep or maintain the 'something', then suddenly disappeared ... it's called reckless. It is humane, because usually people do not appreciate something that God gave. Though God gives 'something' is not without purpose. It must be 'something' would mean, if not now maybe later. But it certainly means a lot to us.

Well now trying to say 'something is' missing where, who knows I can help you search and find them.

About the death of a peek

When asked about a question, what is the closest to humans? The answer is DEATH may indeed be appropriate.

Death can come anytime, anywhere, to anyone. Casually, as he pleases. Death really close friend of man. Ready or not, like it or not humans should be faced with the reality that someday he would die. Problem first or the latter has been adjusted to a contract that God made.

Talking about death is close to humans, I am experiencing the event itself. In good health, happy, and happy death never choose "prey". I do not have to sort a chronology of what happened because it feels very fast and ... it was still reluctant to tell.

Do I feel the trauma? No. Because I will never stop to pet my motorhome. When all of a sudden my engine died and can not be turned on again, when I asked for help actually my friend asked for help closer to death appeared before me. If only I knew that it was a catastrophe for me, I will never ask anyone for help.

Conscience is interfering, that I had to handle everything alone. Tired of what is important is not safe. But then my conscience ignore. I do not want to hear it until my body finally crashed into a bus. It happened so fast, that I remember my body is right under the bus. Motor severely damaged, and my left shoulder hurt quite badly.

If destiny I got there, now I'll never write again. But apparently I still have a way of life continues. God allowed me to fix all the mistakes I've ever done, repent and not repeat them. Remembering all the sins and mistakes I have done, I am grateful.

So now I appeal to all to forgive all my mistakes that feels good and that I never realized.
Sorry.

About crying

Sunday night, 27 February 2011, the last day I was listening to SKY 90.50 FM Bandung. The atmosphere of emotion came from the broadcast room, and from my heart. Almost all former broadcaster Sky to come. They certainly gave testimony for the Sky. That this is not just a radio station. That this radio is a collection of beautiful women with a beautiful voice. That the radio is not just a place to work. That this radio is home to residents who ever stop, there. They gave testimony almost "without" crying, until finally there was one broadcaster Sky was not "ashamed" to express feelings of emotion with tears.

Something made me salute the same broadcaster on this one with tears. (Should I call her name? Well, you get to know her as perempuansore). Feelings of emotion need not be hidden. Tears do not have the bear-resistant. This announcer once said that if she had time to cry in public transportation. But she was ignored, no matter how other people see it.

Crying is not a disgrace. Crying is a natural process. When we are faced by various problems that make us dizzy head is natural for us need someone to share. Besides could feel more relieved, just maybe it could help us deliver solutions. But often we have difficulty expressing and instead of appearing there are tears or crying.

I was ever good at tagging writing about crying by Efi Fitriyyah. There are several theories of scientific research results about to cry.
According to Dr. William Frey of Minnesota, crying can make someone feel better because the tears that came out to remove the tension of nerve function in the body, which one causes is stress, because the burden problem. Tears itself is actually divided into two, namely:

1. Water eye irritation.
Tears were coming out because there were foreign objects into the eye.
2. Emotional tears
Tears were coming out because of the encouragement emotion or feeling.

If stress is analogous such as toxic, if not removed from the body will lower your immune system and other biological processes. Expenditure process toxins from the body usually is when we sweat and tears. In addition to relief, crying was healthy.

Compassion is not toxic. Compassion is an emotional expression of our souls can not be separated with a state, place, or person. Compassion is something that is honest, then why should we be ashamed to reveal the honesty?

Crying is not a sign of weakness, but too many tears will weaken the soul.

About friends

Several times I wrote about the "friend". OK I'm good at writing theory about friends but could never really get to do what I wrote. Talking is easy brothers, we do act tough.

Last night I read the status DeltaFM Medan:
Make friends with people who love to defend the truth. He is happy and we dikala ornate shield at a time when we are hard

Wow! An amazing status. There is one comment that if we keep defend so how?? and it was, where we can get a friend like that. most wants to win their own .....

My comments regarding this status which is difficult to find a friend like that. Is there? If now, one can be justified.

Actually a friend like that exist. In fact, each of us will have them.

A good friend is a friend who can remind us when his mistake and want to support us when we do right. Want to give encouragement when we slumped, willing to give aplouse when we achieve a feat of achievement even though it was only losing weight or just get up in the morning.

Friends who want to together when we smile, a lot. Friends who are willing to hear our complaints were observed. But it is difficult to find a friend who would accept us as it is. Sometimes we fight alone to overcome the problems we face. Not infrequently we are trying to cover up what happened for fear of our friends know. The point is we must accept ourselves first.

We need not look for friends who are always defending the truth, let that be that person. Starting with the honest to ourselves, accept ourselves what it is. Let us be good friends to them.

A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and sing it back when you've forgotten the words.

About The Dead Leaves

When the dry season, the trees wither. Dead leaves that fall was beautiful. Like the rain, down scramble, when swirling wind.

The trees wither goal is to reduce evaporation so that they can survive when a lack of water. Then the dead leaves that have made a big sacrifice: instead of the source is missing, they are better with a small role that disappeared.

That's one philosophy that I can, about sacrifice.
But unfortunately, dead leaves that litter the place where they are scattered. Although they are easy to collect, but also easy to disintegrate during re-wind.
In the circumstances they were collected can be easily burned and eventually destroyed.

Negative philosophy of dead leaves: easily collected, but easily disassembled and burned. That happened because they were 'rubbish'.

Unfortunately this nation seems to be such a negative philosophy of the dried leaves. Only faith and science that can lead us away from the bad properties. Because the science we can choose the good and the bad. With faith we can know right from wrong.

Let's forget the fun things about this dry leaves, and think about stupid things that would happen if the negative nature of the dried leaves of this is in us.

Let's forget about something cool, and think about something Fool.

About Sincere

Sincere = hidden in our heart.

Something sincere done without requesting a reply and do not feel loss when it does not get a reply.

So it is with love. Sincere love grows not on "because" but received "despite".
Whatever its form, sincerity must be done unconditionally. No waiting for the assessment of others and of course done with pleasure. There is no boundary between sincere with feigned sincerity because hidden in our hearts and God only knows.

Because hidden in a sincere heart and God only knows, then let's do what we want to do with seeking pleasure of Allah :)

About Life Is A Journey

Life is a journey, not just one's destiny or fate. Precisely is the journey of fate, the fate of a person can also travel. What I do not just skip what I went through. Always start with something, and end with something else. Whether it's a good start with a good end too. Or a good start by the end of the less good. Or a poor start but could end up very well. Or the most ironic, beginning and ending poorly.
All of it through a journey that can be called progress.

Man is a creature of God is very complete with strengths and abilities that are different God forms for each person. Humans can run well on the condition is not good because they were given brains to think, and hearts to feel the sensitivity to the situation that is face it.

The relationship between two people or more going through a journey, through a process. From the trip was the relationship is mutually beneficial, others detrimental to each other, but some are not affect anything. But in my opinion, the relationship between human beings always have influence, good or bad.

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